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Why We Do What We Do

Children are the barometer for the family, reflecting the overall health and harmony within the family tree. Because our children are the furthest point downstream in the family lineage, they automatically inherit the unresolved pain, as well as the gifts from their mother, father and previous generations.

The solutions to addressing challenges in our children, such as ADD, ADHD, difficulties with learning, and sleep disorders, to name a few, are held within the family tree. In fact, all imbalances in the human body have components found within our genealogy, if you know where and what to look for. Have you ever wondered what happens when your violent, abusive, alcoholic paternal grandfather dies, or the implications of your mother who fought with her mother who fought with her mother?  The spirit of these behaviors is passed to the next generation, and unless these issues are consciously addressed, they are handed down to the next generation. These energies snowball and build momentum, eventually causing physical disease and conditions that manifest in our present and future generations. Left unresolved, the present and future generations will repeat the patterns of the past.

When parents are willing to see their children as the reflection of their own childhood challenges and pain, they take the first step in healing themselves, their children, and previous generations. This is a quantum shift in awareness from the old paradigm that identifies “the children” as the problem. The result is an improved quality in the parents’ lives and expanded love in their marriage, which benefits their entire family.  These benefits extend to the past as well as unborn generations.

Changing the Destiny of Your Family’s Future

A key ingredient to the success of our programs is the level of commitment parents are willing to take to create changes within the family matrix.  Parents are guided, encouraged and supported every step of the way to achieve their desired results. The tools we use include:


The Whole Family uses natural, non-invasive, organic tools and techniques to create structures for your family on the path to greater cooperation, health, and harmony. The systems we work with allow us to quickly and efficiently know your family dynamic on a very personal level.  The first step in our process is a free family screening to determine compatibility of your family with us and our programs.
Call us for your free Family Screening @ 505-466-4344.

  • Behavioral Iridology
  • Family Tree Assessment
  • Communication Skills
  • Individualized Parenting Strategies
  • Tutoring for Children
  • Right/Left Brain Balancing Techniques
  • Diet and Exercise
  • Family Activities
  • Healing Ceremonies for Your Family
  • Identify and support the individual needs of Indigo/Crystal children
  • Support unique qualities in each family member
  • Communicate more effectively
  • Create vibrant health and vitality in family members
  • Increase intimacy in your marriage
  • Improve cooperation in blended families

Beth M. Bennett, M.A., Ed.D.  Beth has worked in the education field for over 30 years, primarily facilitating children with special needs, including the gifted and talented. Beth’s gift is connecting with children to find and nourish the next phase of their expansion and learning. Beth’s playful and innocent attitude creates a safe environment for your child’s learning to expand.  Beth’s responsibilities in our programs include providing one-on-one tutoring for your children, teaching children body balancing techniques, as well as implementing the structure and continuity within our programs.

Jim Verghis

Jim Verghis, B.I.
Jim is the owner and director of the Institute of Behavioral Iridology. He has been interpreting personality and inherited family patterns from the eyes for over 24 years. Jim works with three primary modalities including iris patterns, specific gender sequence (birth order), and family history.  Jim’s gift is the ability to synthesize diverse and complex personal and family data into a practical clear understanding of sequences that create physiology and behaviors.
Jim brings humor and joy to his work, making the most difficult of topics fun and easy to comprehend. Jim’s comprehensive understanding of family dynamics brings clarity and direction to the overall program.

Beth Bennett